If confidence came with a manual, I would have read it cover to cover, twice.
The truth is, I used to think confidence meant being the loudest in the room or never messing up. But the more I’ve grown through FFA, the more I’ve learned that real confidence isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being brave enough to try.
I remember walking into my first FFA competition with sweaty palms, a wrinkled creed paper, and a whole lot of doubt. My stomach was doing flips, and I kept reading the first paragraph over and over in my head like it was some kind of magical spell. I didn’t win that day. Actually, I barely made it through without tripping on the stairs. But what I gained was far more valuable. I proved to myself that I could do hard things. That one shaky moment of courage became the seed for confidence that’s still growing today.
I’ve seen that same quiet kind of courage throughout this year, especially when around campers stepping up to lead at Snake River and Southern Oregon leadership camps. Confidence isn’t just a moment, it’s something that builds with every experience, every stretch, every brave “yes.”
Even standing on the steps of the National Mall, walking through Arlington Cemetery, and reflecting at the Pentagon Memorial reminded me just how powerful quiet strength can be. Those moments gave me perspective on leadership, on service, and on the kind of person I want to continue becoming.
Looking ahead, I’m beyond excited for the upcoming Executive Committee meeting, Business and Industry visits, and of course, the Oregon State Fair. Each one is a new opportunity to grow, to represent our members, and to practice the kind of confidence that’s rooted not in perfection, but in purpose.
If you’re reading this and waiting to feel confident before doing the thing, stop waiting. Confidence doesn’t come before the leap. It shows up because of it.
Here are a few things that helped me build mine:
- Try one thing that scares you, even if it’s small. Momentum builds courage.
- Surround yourself with people who remind you of your strengths.
- It doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful
And remember, your version of confidence might look different than someone else’s. That’s okay. You don’t need to be the loudest, the fastest, or the most experienced. You just need to be willing to try, grow, and keep showing up.
So this month, my challenge to you is simple. Pick one thing that stretches you. Do it with shaky hands and an open heart. You’ve got this and even if you don’t yet believe it, I believe it for you.
With love and confidence,
Ethian Webb
Oregon FFA
State Treasurer